Inclusive Summer Camp Culture

Magen's Bay Beach, U.S Virgin Islands

Inclusive Summer Camp Culture

This summer I had the opportunity to work with a local summer camp done through a local church on Magen's Bay beach on the island of St. Thomas. Your probably wondering isn't this normal as a teacher for me to work at a summer camp or with a likewise program; your probably correct as I normally do, but this one was different. This camp was completely inclusive of children regardless of their developmental delays, disabilities, or economic status; simply put it was amazing!

As a mother and teacher I have not seen any programs that encourage and incorporate inclusiveness for all at this level in any setting. All students were given equal opportunities and activities with the option of opting out for an alternate socially motivated activity. The environment was like a utopia rather than a summer camp. Teasing, bullying, and impatience were practically nonexistent ( as most of us know there's always that one or those few that have to ruin a good thing). The most exhilarating thing for me as a teacher and parent was that even in those rare moments when  a moment may arise the youths, adolescents came to the rescue and aid of their peers recognizing that they are all in camp as one group of all of God's children.

Every time I witnessed these glorious acts that made my heart smile I wondered why was it so hard for all children to understand and empathize as these children had and come to a consensus? Why was the world at large so behind, not mention the little ole island of St. Thomas? I came to one conclusion, our culture.

Culture is derived through the experiences of norms and values held within a society and in the Virgin Islands, we have the 'solid as a rock' mentality. We condition our children to be "hard" and tough inadvertently making them unsympathetic and unable to empathize with others.  As adults and parents we are guilty of the same mistakes accusing parents of not "training" their children and that they need "blows" (corporal punishment) when truthfully we just don't believe that everyone and child is different and most of them can't help their actions.

My fellow Virgin Islands, parents, professionals; by brothers and sisters please let us change this part of our culture and recognize the need for empathy in this world for those who need it and the rest that sincerely deserve it. Children and adults with special needs did not make the choice to do things differently; they actually had no choice.


The views expressed within this blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the youths of the U. S Virgin Islands visit https://www.usviearlychildhoodlearning.blogspot.com . For more on the U.S Virgin Islands youths read Curriculum Choices, Learning Environment & Strategies, My Beliefs on Language Acquisition,  Respect Goes Both Ways: Teacher and Student, V. I Character, and Extra Curricula Activities since IrmaMaria.

Life Long Lessons: St. Croix

Life Long Lessons: St. Croix

    In a season that usually celebrates promotional exercises and vacations I have grown fond of watching the endless pictures of graduations from preschool to college. I can't speak for everyone else but it makes me reminisce on adolescent memories, lost opportunities and life-long lessons! As I scroll through my news feeds and read the paper during this season I sometimes feel a sense of pride recognizing my career choice does matter ( even though I get horrible hours, make minimum wage, and am constantly ridiculed). Today I was stripped of such after reading Facebook posts about adolescent twin boys ( from St. Croix) that will not be able to participate in their graduation. While this was completely their own faults and choice according to reports by the associated press I'm shocked at the stance many have taken with regards to the consequences set forth by the U.S Virgin Islands Department of Education.

     Parents and teachers alike spent time coaching, training, and teaching adolescents to become responsible citizens that can contribute to our society beginning from the early years. We have become a society that makes excuses for our children rather than letting them learn.

    While it is sincerely terrible that these young men, the epitome of many of our young men, will be deprived of this epic opportunity they were given a choice and they had to choose what was best for their futures. It was all their choices from beginning to end.

    Just like the world we live in today everyone has to face the consequences of their actions. While the circumstances are unfortunate these young men have just received a life lesson they will never forget.

The views expressed within the blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the U.S Virgin Islands youths read Curriculum Choices, Learning Environment & Strategies, My Beliefs on Language Acquisition,  Respect Goes Both Ways: Teacher and Student, V. I Character, and Curricula Standards & Benchmarks

RETRACTION: Excessive Corporal Punishment in U.S.V.I

       So I sincerely feel the need to apologize to my readers as well as the educators at the Yvonne Bowsky Elementary School, located within our territory, with regards to a blog post published last Sunday due to reports received and read (from various publications based within the territory and teachers) about the use of corporal punishment by a principal on one of their students which is in fact, NOT TRUE. We were delighted to hear that while the video and comments attached to it and articles on the subject may depict a much more gruesome scene it was actually nothing like illustrated, but an actual crude offense made by another to seem so. While the screams and cries in the video were completely real they were the result of a tired student trying to pt his way out of the punishment received, which I am told was raising his arms above his head for long periods of time. I would like to also take this opportunity while acknowledging that my opinions were in fact biased because of my stance on corporal punishment to note that those were my only objections and I'm sure many would agree as we've seen in recent senate legislations world wide and at home that a change in our schools policies and procedures with respects to such is much needed.

The views expressed within this blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the U.S Virgin Islands read Too Much Violence And Abuse In Our Schools, Too Much Violence: Shootings Near USVI Preschools, andEducational Institutions Need New Blood.

Excessive Corporal Punishment In U.S.V.I

    (Picture below is of Yvonne Bowsky Elementary School, U.S.V.I)

      While doing my nightly reading (this time via the internet) I came across an article about one of our local elementary schools within the territory, Yvonne Bowsky Elementary School and couldn't resist reading about the latest news within the institution that inspires me so much. I always try to keep abreast of things happening within our territory's educational institutions, call it my way of staying informed. As I began to read this article I was confronted with many mixed emotions. First, I was happy to know that steps were finally being taken to rid our territory of such an unrealistic trait/ behavior for any educational professional since it was first off ridiculously bizarre ideal within educational guidelines and secondly we are in much more informed times, or at least I thought we were; after the article and attached video I wasn't to sure anymore. Next was fear to confront me, as I continued to read the article I realized that there had been an actual incident of this sort within the territory. In an effort not to become too overwhelmed I began to slightly rationalize the different situations in my head but everything I came up with was still bad. As the article came to a close I thought of two things; one I really do think that our new commissioner was much to light with the 'punishment' given for such an infraction especially since it was the vice principal of the school; a weeks suspension with pay and then a promotion to principal doesn't sent a good message. As noted within the same article featured within the St. Thomas Source and various others, such incidents do continue within the territory and abroad and reap the same horrid results. If the vice principal is allowed to get away with such behavior how do we really expect to deter others? Unfortunately it may actually be the only way for teachers to get a week off with pay. My second thought was about those present at the time of the incident; of everyone there including the person videotaping I wonder how many of them call themselves education professionals.

     Then I saw the video, and though it is merely 53 seconds long I found it chilling from beginning to end with terrifying screams. I figured the person videotaping either had my sentiments of not bearing to watch what they'd found after those horrid screams or they were too afraid of losing their job. Listening to that child scream and beg I wondered how I would feel know that was my child or even that my child could possibly be in such a situation, then my heart sunk and I felt ashamed for my territory; why would our lawmakers allow such an act to go seemingly unnoticed? I can appreciate the fact that since corporal punishment legally is still allowed within U.S.V.I schools that it was a large factor for consideration (with regards to those involved in the discussion making process). I'm also certain that tenure was also a matter of consideration since one does not become principal overnight; I'm sure the educator in question is no doubt an excellent one to be able to lead in such a capacity. But as someone held at such a high regard within the institution and society being idolized by students, parents and colleagues, one should continued to be held at such standards with regards to doing what is right and held accountable accordingly.

     According to the Global Initiative to End all Corporal Punishment Of Children and the overwhelming evidence that shows the harmful effects of corporal punishment show associations between corporal punishment and a wide range of negative outcomes, including; direct physical harm, negative impacts on mental and physical health, poor moral internalization, increased aggression in children, increased perpetration and experience of violence in adults, increased antisocial behavior, poor cognitive development, and damaged relationships.

     My thoughts then shifted back to the commissioners response to the video, a week off with pay and a promotion, and wondered if that had been her child in the video if she would've thought it appropriate.

The views expressed within the blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the U.S Virgin Islands read Too Much Violence And Abuse In Our Schools, Too Much Violence: Shootings Near USVI Preschools, and Educational Institutions Need New Blood.