Monday, September 30, 2013

Too Much Violence; USVI Shootings Near Preschools


Over the past week our Daily News has had headlines that a journalist probably prays for, but our community is being left with the stains and pains of these actions. We have lost another child to a senseless killing; my condolences to the mother although what do you tell a mother after she loses her son? Unfortunately, its something that many of us have thought of time and time again; I am personally tired of having such thoughts. I'm tired of having to bear witness to yet another mother mourning and suffering for reasons unknown to her and others. For each time that we've heard of the lost of another young life, we've heard promises from our legislators and commissioner's promising to 'clean up the streets' and make our community safer. The truth is, the only people that can make the community safe again are the members of that community; they are the only ones who will truly care.
Since the beginning of this year there has been a number of violent incidents within close proximity or directly within the areas of Head Start Centers in the Virgin Islands.  On St. Thomas there was a shooting reported directly in front of the Bovoni Head Start Center and in February, three employees of the Berg's Home Head Start Center found their cars with bullet holes and a security guard at the Dept. of Human Services was shot while being robbed of his cellular phone. Patrols where increased within the area, as promised by the police, but that didn't stop the violence from escalating. On Tuesday, April 9, 2013, gunshots erupted outside the Bergs Home Head Start (once again), children where asked to lie on the ground for fifteen minutes to ensure safety from stray bullets. While many parents, came with an urgency to check on the well being of their children and to take them out of harms way, they where unable to do so. Police had engaged the suspect within a gunfight that ended up directly behind the Head Start, so the center was placed on lock down, another measure to ensure the safety of students. The following Friday, angry & concerned parents spoke with officials from the Dept. of Human Services and the Virgin Islands Police Dept. expressing their concerns for the safety of their children. After a vote parents and officials came to the decision to send students to other Head Starts within the community that weren't experiencing such troubles due to violence in the community. 
Now, just last Thursday, a parent became a victim after dropping of his child at Head Start in Est. Williams Delight, on St. Croix. When returning to his car the victim was approached by four men who asked for his chain, and when he hesitated, they shot him and took it from him. In an attempt to escape the father ran into the Head Start, but was pursued and shot again from his assailant within the Head Start Center housing two employees and ten students at the time. Because of the violent nature of the crime the center has been closed until further notice. Earlier this year a store keeper was shot two blocks from another Head Start on St. Croix; when will this blatant disregard for human life end? I don't think that the blame should lie solely on those committing the crimes either, for what are our elected officials for? If we cannot expect our children to be safe within the learning institutions of our society then where are they safe? And while I thank the Lord that no one was hurt physically in either of these situations, I still can't help but wonder the effects of these incidents psychologically on such young minds, and hope that (if affected at all) it is irreversible and not a life long threat. Early childhood learners are very impressionable and such events can have negative effects, socio-emotional and psychological, that may past adolescence. I hope that as a community we will, one day soon, be able to rise above the violent crimes that are rampant in today's society and elevate ourselves to a more civilized way of living and thinking to secure a brighter future for our children. 

Thursday, September 26, 2013

3+ Hours of Nap Time is Ridiculous!

       Nap time is increasingly being questioned by educators, parents, and doctors; the question is though, how long should children be allowed to nap? According to the research that I've done most educational institution's don't require a nap time, but suggests it. It is merely so that parents don't feel as though we are forcing their children to sleep; that they have a choice. But it has been proven through numerous studies that sleep helps children to retain the information that they've learned. When tested with a focus group, the children who were allowed to nap were able to retain more information and correctly relay it back to the instructor as opposed to those to didn't take a nap. Doctors have long established that a good nights rest is the key to success in the morning, suggesting that we all receive adequate sleep. For toddlers it is important for them to get between 10-12 hours sleep to be fully comprehensible and engaged. While most parent know that it is highly unlikely that children will adhere to such a schedule, we must try to promote their well being and overall success academically.
       In the U.S Virgin Islands many daycare facilities practice nap time, usually just after lunch. But does nap time really need to take three out of seven hours that children are in school? Is it adequate to have nap times that exceed two and a half hours? In my experience I've witnessed through previous employments at three different daycare/preschool centers, nap time is three (3) hours or more depending on the character of students on that given day. Children are basically allowed to sleep after lunch until it is near for students to be picked up by their parents. In addition to the multiple snack/water breaks children are only allotted maybe three hours of instruction; is that what we are paying for? How can we honestly expect our children to be progressive and successful academically if we aren't facilitating the necessities needed for them to succeed in those (kindergarten/elementary) environments. Because of these 'bad habits' that children develop, within their early years of learning, teachers face dealing with challenging behaviors from children who'd like to learn, but aren't for they are to busy disrupting a class full of students who are eager to learn.
While nap time is necessary I do believe that the nap time 'practices' on St. Thomas are, as we would say 'an over'. I don't think that it benefits anyone other than the employees, which makes the parents the benefactors. While I do think that the parents are partly benefactors within any private educational institution, their purpose is not to benefit or convenience the professionals but to benefit their children and convenience themselves. I would be glad to share the names of the places that I know of that practice such outrageous nap times, but for personal reasons I won't post them here. Please email me and I'll be happy to oblige.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Resiliency in the U.S Virgin Islands

       Resilience in the U.S Virgin Islands comes within many shapes and forms, but sadly not all forms receive the audience it should. With our economy staggering it would appear pertinent for us to remind businesses and owner's that there is 'still money to be made' here. But what about those who've exhibited resilience socially and academically? Resilience is illustrated in the strength of a baby in the womb of a mother who abuses alcohol, tobacco, and drugs. It is shown in the everyday live of men who became productive members of the society, who furthered their education and used it to better the community instead of contributing to it's stagnant state. Where are their stories, opinions, insights, and monthly publications? I know where there not, in the schools, programs, and community centers where they should be; to show children of this day and age that while peer pressure does exist not all are 'subdued' by it and resilience is real. It is the key to success, academic or otherwise. The ability to exhibit resilience (Masten & Coatsworth, 1998; Rutter, 2000; Werner, 2000) is associated with a series of protective or opportunity factors that counter the impact of the risk factors in a child’s life. The risk with risk factors is that they have a tendency to multiply, like problems at home affecting school or problems with peers affecting a child's behavior, making it challenging. By facilitating protective factors for those children, encouraging them, engaging them in progressive learning activities we can help them to build resilience. By building a relationship/bond with the child we could help them so much more simply by empathizing genuinely. Through this bond, and showing them that you truly care, the child is more engaged and aware of his development and progressions, as such, they become more inclined to 'accelerate' their own progression/development. Because of lack of adequate schools, funding, personnel, and pressure has caused many of our educational institutions and programs to fail our children. I urge all to promote resiliency, spread the word, real stories to real people in real situations that genuinely need real help.

Rasminsky, Barbara Kaiser and Judy Sklar. Challenging Behavior in Young Children: Understanding, Preventing and Responding Effectively, 3/e for Ashford University, 3rd Edition. Pearson Learning Solutions.

Resilience At its best

http://www.ascd.org/publications/educational-leadership/sept13/vol71/num01/Handle-with-Care@-A-Conversation-with-Maya-Angelou.aspx

Some productive pointers for teachers/parents(PTA)

http://blog.edmentum.com/productive-parent-conferences

Monday, September 23, 2013

Should she Fry or Do time?! What kind of mother or human can put a baby in the microwave?!

https://plus.google.com/105836129499455555859/posts/LLZFe8ikBF5

Fun for toddlers and can be adjusted to suit other ages; a great idea!!

https://plus.google.com/105836129499455555859/posts/dLuFgtCksDB

Baby sitter not guilty in 4-month-old's death - News - Virgin Islands Daily News

Baby sitter not guilty in 4-month-old's death - News - Virgin Islands Daily News


Proper childcare is costly, within the Virgin Islands and abroad, but it is also necessary to ensure not only the progression of the children but their safety. My heart goes out to this family, I could never forget this story; I wish peace, solace, and justice for all loved ones who have lost.

A beautiful poem by the talented Ann Taylor depicting the bond between mother and child.

The Baby's Dance
~Ann Taylor

Dance, little baby, dance up high, Never mind baby, mother is by; Crow and caper, caper and crow, There little baby, there you go:
Up to the ceiling, down to the ground,
Backwards and forwards, round and round.
Then dance, little baby, and mother shall sing,
With the merry gay coral, ding, ding, a-ding, ding.  

Informative article about our educational traditions as a society and how they are transforming.

http://www.windsorstar.com/Technology+will+change+education/8906895/story.html

A poem for children

Above the Bright Blue Sky
~Albert Midlane

There's a Friend for little children
Above the bright blue sky,
A Friend who never changes
Whose love will never die;
Our earthly friends may fail us,
And change with changing years,
This Friend is always worthy
Of that dear name he bears.

There's a home for little children
Above the bright blue sky,
Where Jesus reigns in glory,
A home of peace and joy;
No home on earth is like it,
Nor can with it compare;
And everyone is happy,
Nor could be happier there.

I enjoyed reading this poem with my son, I hope to bring the same experience to someone else.

 

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Statement of Intent

I'd like to open a new child care facility within the west end of St. Thomas to cater to early childhood learners (toddles/ore-k), as well as other students by means of tutoring. I'm hoping to get some feedback on the location, as well as questions/suggestions. Please don't be shy, any criticism is welcome!