Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, January 8, 2018

Extra-Curricular Activities since Irma; Why They Are Needed


Extra-Curricular Activities since Irma; Why They Are Needed
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As a community our territory has been through a tremendous ordeal. Two category five hurricanes have made life as we knew it impossible to return to as almost everything has changed. With change comes the good and the bad as we all know; the good part is that we get to rebuild. It is a chance for change, to learn from our countless mistakes, to push forward, and a time for atonement. The bad part is the restoration phase and the inconveniences that we all have to suffer in order to make our futures brighter. One such inconvenience is the lack of extra curricula activities and adequate after school enrichment programs to sustain the new half day of school that we have adopted to ensure the needs of all are met.

 These half days of school are very strenuous on families and make it hard for parents, as well as students to actively participate in various ways. Yes, parents are allotted two hours a month to check in with their child’s teachers and schools, but many parents have more than one child and two hours may not be enough. Transportation and number of children should be taken into account as well as the needs of the child or children in question. Parents of students with delays or disabilities need to actively participate to learn routines and techniques to attribute to their child’s development. This too is true of students who exhibit challenging behavior due to emotional trauma/stress, parents need to be involved to ensure resilience is built upon with a support system; in this case the home and school community.

Every child on this island or in the territory at the times of hurricanes Irma and Maria have suffered a traumatic experience that WILL stay with them throughout their lives. When you really think of the ordeal we have faced as a community it must have been extra hard on the children. They did not have prior knowledge and experience that came with past hurricanes to mentally prepare for the storm (I got my experience with Marilyn and those after and still was in shock and dismay).

Every outlet for recreation that still exists has been ‘modified’ somehow leaving nothing much to help the youths cope. This is the time when we need those “Big Brother” enrichment programs to detour youths and adolescents from participating and engaging in self destructive behavior which can become the beginning of the path to becoming the next degenerate on the street corner.


The views expressed within this blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the youths of the U. S Virgin Islands visit https://www.usviearlychildhoodlearning.blogspot.com . For more on the U.S Virgin Islands youths read Curriculum Choices, Learning Environment & Strategies, My Beliefs on Language Acquisition,  Respect Goes Both Ways: Teacher and Student, V. I Character, and Curricula Standards & Benchmarks




Friday, July 17, 2015

Savan Clean Up And Restore Project: Collaboration of Families and Community


I had the pleasure of meeting  a gentleman by the name of Kevin Gilbertson on Wednesday, July 15, 2015 when I ventured to the neighborhood basketball court, along with other members of the community, to find out more about the Savan Cleanup and Restoration Project  that began earlier this month on July 9, 2015. Kevin was more than forthcoming in asking the questions and listening to the concerns of his fellow neighbors while helping us to visualize the intent of the entire initiative. We spoke of past events (the historic walk through, and meeting held at Palms Court Harborview Hotel) and those to come all with the intent to revitalize the community and cleanup Savan. When asked about any future projects that may take place with that would serve the neighborhoods youth Mr. Gilbert assured me considerations had already been taken to establish a community center within the neighborhood aiming at such, and providing various programs all to foster positive progression for the development of each individual youth. We spoke of gaining the help of other influential members of the community within to continue the mass engagement already underway also to gain insight to center focus' on pertinent issues relevant to those residing within. Throughout our conversation I witnessed various members of the community stop by, some signing up volunteers, others volunteers ready to move their detail to the next spot! 


C.A.N or Community Action Now! Inc. is a non-profit organization whose mission is to create programs and services in underserved areas in the US and the Caribbean (C.A.N, 2014). C.A.N and community partners launched the Savan cleanup and restoration project on July 9, 2015 and it will continue to July 25, 2015 which will then be dubbed 'Savan Appreciation Month'. Through collaborative efforts with various partnerships including but not limited to the Economic Development Agency, Virgin Islands Police Department, Department of Public Works, Sankofa Saturday, government officials, local businesses, and members of the community this initiative continues to take place within the Savan community, beginning during the morning commutes well through the day to the evening. The Savan Cleanup and Restore Project began its month long activities and initiatives with a historic walk through of areas in Savan that aren't familiar to the general public as the historic monuments of change that they are. Alongside the V.I.P.D and E.D.A officials as guides children were shown the history of Savan and in turn learned more about their cultures as it pertains to their neighborhood community. Since then there have been countless volunteers, neighbors and strangers alike, all with the same mission of restoring the Savan Community. Through the mobilization of the communities members C.A.N officials and members of the #savesavan initiative are not only highlighting the historic heritage we share, but they are also illustrate the culture we hope to continue to be prevalent within our communities rather than the degenerative status that it's slowing becoming plagued with. The youngest members of our communities look to us for role models and by mobilizing all members of our community (including the youths) to engage within various aspects we as parents, educators, and citizens of this community will not only teach culture but live it, and show our children that we too practice what we preach. 
  
Other initiatives are also in place to keep up current trends and develop new ones with the intent of enacting solutions to improve the stagnant state of our neighborhood and community. C.A.N officials have also partnered with the Citizens And Police Association to implement a neighborhood watch aimed at crime and crime prevention. Meetings for the neighborhood watch will continue at the Methodist Church near Market Square, on Monday July 20, 2015. All members of the community and the Savan neighborhood are encouraged to attend and spread the word. Follow the Proud To Be A Savanero group on Facebook and add members, spread the message.   
  
Families, neighbors, educators, and officials all gathered and united by a common means; this is the product of collaboration between families and communities. This is our culture. This is how we live.  
The views expressed within the blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the U.S Virgin Islands youths read #LoveWins Diversity for A Diverse WorldHealthy Summer Activities: Keeping Children Active, and National Public Gardens Day U.S.V.I.     

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

How was your first day of school

Children @ Lockhart Elementary via V.I.D.E
As many parents did, I spent the day awaiting pictures of students dressed to impress on thne first day of school! Surely I wasn't disappointed; receiving plenty of pictures from family and friends and observing most of the kids that insaw on their morning commutes, I figured parents must have been all tearing eyes this morning. After conferring with a few mothers I was quite certain that's not always the case. Many first time moms did have those moments, but most complained of the chores of getting ready for school. Many kids were unable to easily make the transition of back to school bed times, transition routines, and even proper meals! So in light of our little 'Back to school conversation' I took some notes to share with my fellow mother's and hope in return you'll share some tips as well, after all who knows everything rite?!
Anyways, for first time moms getting their little ones ready for their first day of school getting kids into a routine can be very hard. Practicing at home routines as well as school routines can help your child feel more confident about attending s new school and can ease your summer back to school transition as well. Many children an parents experience anxiety over back to school or going to a new school, role playing and practicing these routines can help to elevate stress in all parties concerned while boosting confidence levels in children as well.  Noting on a calender or how ever choose the days for school can also help with their anxiety even after school has begin; just as we adults feel more prepared with schedules so do kids and it will ease some stress related to the matter. Reading books about schools, the different activities that exist therein, and the expectations of all involved may very well serve as a formal introduction or an orientation to school rather than just throwing them to the wolves (so to speak). Everyone wants their child's first day of school to be memorable, and impressionable in great aspects, as do the teachers who've excitedly prepared classrooms, lesson plans, and activities for their pleasure and progression so lets be sure to give them the tools they'll need to survive.
Ms. Child Advocate

Ms. Child Advocate

Thursday, May 15, 2014

Families Matter for the Achievement of Development Goals

"Families Matter for the Achievement of Development Goals"

Because many of us unfortunately have been reared through these times where the importance of family and all that it teaches has diminished greatly, we all look through distorted lens with regards to matters of family. Once upon a time, our country and people where looked up upon by outsiders/tourists for various reasons; social culture and agriculture, but mainly resilience. We once were a people of ideals and values placed throughout our communities with presence of our culture.
            Now the culture and presence of our ancestors have all been warped. We've incorporated every other culture with ours to suit the needs of a vastly changing demographic within our territory and as a result, we've lost our identity.
            Like any other community around the world, the members of those communities become one with each other to help their well beings. The ‘family’ created within these communities are now who are rearing the next generations to come, and while they are readily available to do so, they are also unqualified.
             For this reason and so many more it is time for us to make the presence of the families more important within our communities rather than gangs, corners, or communities that pride themselves in taking in youths who are ignorant to their intentions. It is for these reasons and more that our territory must make a more profound effort to encourage our young men and women to build families and homes instead of only facilitating events where those from all demographics can enjoy themselves and indulge in different vices which contribute to our small, violent and stagnant community. And it is certainly for the promise of hope in our futures and those of our children that we change the ideals being kept at the helms of society; money, power and violence is not the only way to procure or sustain a fulfilling life.

            On this world family day U.S Virgin Islanders I propose we all take the time out not only to enjoy the company of our loved ones, but to appreciate what we can learn from them to help others less fortunate; those who don’t have a support system or a true family. Take the things that you’ve learned and share them with others, whether or not you know of their family structure. The idea is to promote the ideals and norms that can bring our communities back to being the structure that is was instead of the street family that it has become.