Too Much Violence: USVI Shootings Near Preschool's 2

Too Much Violence: USVI Shootings Near Preschool's 

 

(photo credit to associated press) 

Since the beginning of school two weeks ago I'm sure most parents would agree that things have been hectic; settling back into routines, conforming to new ones, etc. So this weekend I decided to let my hair down and get back into my old routines of reading daily publications from groups and people with like interests, but I was a little taken aback by some articles I'd read with regards to the homicide of Jermaine 'Bird' Williams in the parking lot of his child's preschool, George's Christian Academy in Whim, Frederiksted after school. According to numerous reports by local and associated press this father was shot in the parking lot while awaiting his wife to sign out their child after school. Students and school personnel were evacuated to secure room where they called for help from emergency responders but it was to no avail for the violence had already taken this father of three's life. Local public and private agencies came together to aid in the evaluations of students and staff scorned by the incident as was indicated by those in the Office of Child Care and Regulatory Services, but the ignorant violence has not ended nor has the arrogance of our community turning a blind eye to what is unfortunately becoming regular and that is too much violence within and near our schools.  

In 2013 I wrote a blog post, Too Much Violence; USVI Shootings Near Preschools, which illustrated for those who were unaware the rising amount of violence not only in schools but near schools that house our early learners. Different reports of gunfire at various head starts in Bovoni and in Berg's Home caught the attention of many concerned citizens and parents who spoke with officials from the Dept. of Human Services and the Virgin Islands Police Dept. expressing their concerns for the safety of their children. After a vote parents and officials came to the decision to send students to other Head Starts within the community that weren't experiencing such troubles due to violence in the community. That same year a similar incident took place on St. Croix regarding another parent who was shot and in the parking lot of their child's school after dropping off and killed trying escape inside the preschool housing two employees and ten children, causing the center to close.  

Nonetheless, as disturbing as all of this is, the fear and pain spread by the incident in question news and internet sources have chosen to ignore the blatant disregard for the lives of children within our territory in or out of school and call on legislators for stricter policies and legislations to defend our children while in learning institutions they have taken to the more 'popular' trend of 'blaming the victims'. According to reports made, rather than highlighting the severity of the crime instead many have taken to reporting the death of a gangster and gunfire fights that have since emerged in alleged retribution acts, basically glorifying the tragedies taken place causing more danger for residents of our islands.  

I am no politician nor legislator and my opinions are solely my own but when will it be enough to not only ignore the arrogance of others and educate them for the better? What will it take to stop turning a blind eye, to stop promoting and glorifying violence and the things that attribute to it? We are all members of this community and we are all members of families, but most importantly we all went to school and it was once considered safe.  

The views expressed within the blog are solely those of Ms. Child Advocate and does not reflect on any of her affiliations. For more on the U.S Virgin Islands youths read How Was Your First Day Of School, Too Much Violence: USVI Shootings Near Preschools, and Violence And Abuse In School 

  

Too Much Violence and Abuse in Schools!!

 Over the past week and a half I've read some very disturbing reports of people whose job classifies them as 'education officials' but their actions define them otherwise; ignorant human beings. Teachers locking students in closets, verbal and physical abuse of students, and the use of racial slurs between pupils and in one horrid example a principal. How are we to expect students to focus on the importance of education when they are steadily side tracked with numerous, ominous situations that test their resilience constantly?

While the situation maybe considered to have been blown out of proportion a little, its still blatantly clear that the use of the N word was inappropriate and possibly uncalled for within the situation at hand. Principal Claudia Alves, of an elementary in Washington, opted to explain to students of the fifth grade why the word 'negro' is better than the N word. Students from the fifth grade class had become uncomfortable using the word negro in preparations for a play n observance of Dr. Martin Luther Kings holiday program, so principal Alves decided to explain why they shouldn't be uncomfortable with the word negro, but the N word. While there is no dialogue that outline the complete conversation, it is clear that her explanation only served to make matters worse. While one can empathize with the sensitivity of the situation, as an administrator, this principal should have been able to conclude that such a conversation with fifth grade students would have been controversial in some context.

In more disturbing news, high schools in Wake County, N.C are apparently 'flooding' the 'school to prison pipeline' with offenses as little as skipping line in the cafeteria. Students engaged within altercations over racial bias are sent to juvenile courts and placed on probation. One student engaged in such a situation after he was verbally assaulted with racial slurs and punched in the face, ended up being sent to juvenile court as well, where students receive juvenile criminal records; a stigma that never leaves them. Such incidents and others more gruesome attribute to the need for the new first federal legal guidance on school discipline.

Last, but certainly not least, a young man in high school was assaulted by officers for what apparently was a misunderstanding that lead to a straight A. high school basketball player receiving a ruptured testicle! Reports state that an patrol officer reported seeing teenagers in ski masks, while school officials with the team says they where given scarfs along with other gear to dress appropriately for the weather. Officers stopped this teen, who didn't give chase as other members of his team did, and reported a struggle, but their where no injuries reported to any officers. According to statements made by the teenager, a female officer whom searched him sexually assaulted him during the search while squeezing his testicles until he 'felt a pop'. The following day the teen underwent surgery and is now in a wheelchair pending recovery. Statements made by the teens mother state this may affect his ability to reproduce. He is the sole victim of this encounter and its because everyone else knew to be afraid of the police, although they hadn't done anything wrong, and to run away. Is this what we should be teaching our children? To fear the police, those who have sworn to protect us?

These incidents, while all different by nature, all have lasting negative effects/impacts that if left untreated, may become harmful to student morale. I was enlightened to read about an NFL figure that stood up against those bashing him as a 'thug' because of his actions at a football game. Football is well known for taunting, as are other sports, so why would reporters nationwide describe this black male, a college graduate and professional athlete as a 'thug' is unbeknownst to many. I do however agree with him that the word 'thug' is being used as a racial slur to describe black males, and while it may or may not be sued as a substitute for the N word, I do empathize with him and I'm sure each case must be judged individually.

Racial bias within schools has dramatically changed, as have the times but it isn't to an acceptable rate given the laws and ideals that we as humanity have set forth; it starts within the community.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/24/claudia-alves-washington_n_4661483.html?ir=Black%20Voices&utm_campaign=012414&utm_medium=email&utm_source=Alert-black-voices&utm_content=Photo

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/23/school-to-prison-pipeline-wake-county_n_4654351.html?ir=Black%20Voices

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/23/darrin-manning-testicle-rupture_n_4651700.html?ir=Black%20Voices

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/22/richard-sherman-thug-n-word-press-conference_n_4646871.html?ir=Black%20Voices&utm_campaign=012214&utm_medium=email&utm_source=Alert-black-voices&utm_content=Photo

Touchy Aren’t We!!!

       Yesterday after reading a post about a woman who decided it wasn't necessary to bathe her baby every day or even every week! She said she was incited to write her blog post when she realized that she couldn't remember the last time she used her four month olds bath tub. After reading her blog post and checking out the recommended views of interviews she had I decided to publish my own blog post, which many of you have read 'Thank God Your Not My Mom' and shared it with my Google plus page and communities that I thought would at least respect and appreciate a difference of opinion, but I was wrong. Apparently member of Google plus 'Go to Parents Community' were not pleased with my objective points of view within a post I responded to by a fellow community member. In his post he linked the very same article by Claire Goss, but I guess when he asked for different points of view on this "outrage" he meant the fact that people, like myself, found it to be an outrage that people don't think it necessary to bathe children habitually or themselves. Yes, I realize that babies aren't as active as the rest of us, so they probably don't sweat as much and accumulate dirt and grime on their skins as toddlers and adolescents do, still they are human and they do sweat regardless of whether or not it is noticed. I had the same gentleman who I made the 'horrid mistake' of responding to his post take offense because I didn't agree with his point of view and from their began with condescending remarks like ' Well in the Caribbean its hot so babies would need to bathe, but we have AC'. After I kindly reminded him that the U.S Virgin Islands is no third world country and we do have AC as well as many other materialistic things (like Benz, BMW's, and we spend 'Benjamin's'), but I soon realized that no matter what was said on my part this was a lynch mob out to get the island girl. After a while I just became a spectator within the conversation as people continuously kept mentioning me in their condescending remarks, and honestly just to piss them off I keep repeating what we all in the Caribbean knows, not bathing your child regularly is NEGLECT. I guess they felt the need to justify their own actions for not one of the seven people leading this lynch mob bothered to comment on the discussion at hand, Claire Goss neglecting her baby a bath for over a week, but their own practices. Justifying their beliefs with the excuse that it may cause dry skin, well from what I've seen dry skin must appear if skin is not regularly hydrated; water. The pediatricians that advise parents to do this, don't say that they should, only that it's ok for three days out of the week, but of course the American people decided to take it to church and that is where it is being held. I sincerely would like to ask my readers, anonymously of course, do you all practice not bathing your child for a week or more like Claire Goss, and if not but you do practice it, what would be considered by you and your standards an appropriate ratio in which it isn't necessary to bathe children. Thanks for your thoughts and responses so far; looking forward to reading more!!
Please email me if it better suits your privacy needs @ usvi.childhood.learning@gmail.com .

I sincerely don't understand what they found funny; mothers Usually know best but w/ there females I am not certain.

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